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I Feel Like I Need To Say Something…And It May Not Be What You Think 

I’m going to start this off with what bothers me about this title but it’s not necessarily the word ‘bitch’ because as a black man I can’t deny friends of mine and I, do use the word  “nigga” as a term of endearment. We could go back and forth about what’s right and wrong with those two words but there not going anywhere no matter how hard we may want them to. If you read my blog, or know me in person you know you know I love the strippers a woman’s body is the most beautiful thing so this isn’t diss to Amber (because she started as one) or anyone else in that field.  So here goes. First a thought “how to be a bad bitch”(as it applies to the term of endearment) well the truth is the real ones just are, nobody says it to them its said in someone’s head, as there proud of her like “yo my bitch is bad” or in the bedroom as bedroom talk, maybe out loud by her good female friend. But you don’t label yourself.

There is something just so wrong about putting those words together as an adjective (bad bitch) is just as bad as (real nigga) you think about that for a second.  Term of endearment? Brag? It’s funny to me, I’m dyslexic so I think about words and what they mean when spoken or written, funny to me because maybe many others should too.

If I ever have any children whatever path they choose in life that is not crime I’m there for real support but don’t want them referring to themselves as “bad bitches” or “real niggas” choose one word, these words should never be combined its demeaning in fact depending on how you view the meanings, your either selling yourself short or have nothing left to achieve.

Lastly and I am infatuated with Amber Rose, but it wasn’t to long ago I wrote an Amber piece,  so if being a Bad Bitch is synonymous with divorce and being alone, being passed on by one who never mentioned he wanted to marry her or anyone until he found that one (who may be worse or just as bad depending on opinions,Kanye). Why would you want to become that? I wouldn’t want that for my kids. Get your life together want to be better and shoot for that. -Vonte

How Soon We Forget

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We’re going to talk about the Amber Rose Kardashian beef. but let me start buy saying this, as of late I’m no Kanye fan I just went off on him about his Yeezy Boosts sneaker, and well, after the Grammys and his excerpt directly following I was like “Ye sit down and shut up” but for his outburst there is now clarity at least for me and if you don’t know the read up : Kanye –

“When I said that thing about respect artistry, I think it came off the wrong way, and that was a mis-wording on my part because obviously Beck is one the most respected artists and respects artistry,” he said. “But I felt that even though the Grammys sometimes gives awards to people who you wouldn’t think should win in the category, as a respect to artists, we mention the other artist’s name in our speech. And that was the point I was making about it. There’s like many of times I gave other people my award, literally made them come up onstage. Maroon 5, when they won best new artist, [Adam Levine] mentioned me because it was the College Dropout and [it had] 10 nominations and all that.”

That said here’s what I thought about that Grammy win, (I know who Beck is known of him since the 90’s and he’s been an artist before that hell he’s starred on Futurama) but I was like “Beck has a recent album out?” It actually makes me think like Me maybe Kanye struggles with dyslexia he knows what he wants to say but sometimes it just comes out totally wrong. could be wrong he could just be a total ass, but I almost get it.

So now onto this Khole vs. Amber first. Amber said nothing disrespectful at first about her little sister Kylie, she said she is 17 a baby and said she should be in bed, that’s just calling her young so for khloe to say anything like she did about her stripping since 15 she deserved to get wrecked like she did by Amber. But for those of you who think Kanye shouldn’t have joined in after Amber responded to khloe, two things: 1. Amber MeMe’d Kanye. 2. Kim is his wife and that is his family let him not say anything. Now if I had a choice it’d be Amber over Kim all day but neither are any better and I mean that with as least disrespect as possible. I will remind you famous peoples relationships aren’t normal, you don’t believe me search my archives for how I feel about Paula Patton/Robin Thicke. Stop choosing sides cause you got a crush on Amber. Kanye can say what he wants about either of them and no matter how you feel, Rose and Ye were never engaged, he may have gone a little hard with the 30 showers but she clearly wasn’t his “her” and Kanye is the reason you know who she is. -Vonte